Steve,
I am really sorry this has happened to you. I am totally flabbergasted, to say the least. All of my attempts to contact John have, obviously, failed. I can only hope, and I do believe, that someday, when he is able, he will contact you to set things right. He must have gotten into a terrible fix.
He has two young daughters and I know they are his first priority, as they should be. I can only think that he is doing what he feels he must to take care of them. All this is speculation, but I don't think I could have been that far off in my opinions of him. Not that I am trying to justify or excuse his actions because no one made me judge and jury over John.
Regards,
Lynn