Paul, you might like to look at Loctite 567 (a white thread/flange sealant). I have used this throughout the car for fuel & water sealing, and have not had a single problem.
However, if you decide to change to rubber gaskets, be careful ! I have VDO senders that came with rubber gaskets, & I wacked on Loctite 515 (a metal flange sealant) only to discover that it provided a nice lubricant for the rubber gasket - as I tightened down the sender flanges, the rubber gasket simply squeezed out the sides - about 1/4" all round !. This lead to leaks, so I took them all apart, cleaned everything & refitted them with no sealant (as per VDO recommendations) - no leaks now. Trust me to fit first & ask questions later !!
Kind Regards,
Peter D.