Yea, that sums up my thoughts as well (higher the better) - unfortunately silly triangle shaped objects make this a problem over square shaped objects, lol!
I just like to think all this through now because it's a heck of a lot easier to change a fuel setup now than when there's fuel in it!
Btw, here's 2 pictures with the tank mounted and vent in place.
If I fill the tank up to the bottom of the vent, I can get 29 1/2L in. So if I leave a few litres out, say only filling 25L, then I think even though it isn't ideal, I should be okay-ish .... it would take a violent slosh to get fuel into the vent line, but then it would drain back down into the tank immediately (unless it was a huge surge, in which case it would puke it out)
Also, if you see the return line in the first picture (far left side of the tank), filling to 25L would have the return above the max fill line. Filling to 29L (max) would have it ~ 1/4'' below the max fill line, so I guess that isn't too too horrible.
It may be kind of hard to tell from the last picture, but by placing a vent fitting where you suggested and coming under the crossbeam, I don't think would help that much - it'd only be ~ 1/4'' higher than the current fitting, not to mention the potential u-trap.
The one thought I did have though is what happens if I added another vent line into the fill neck, and t'd that line into this vent line? Good idea, or potentially bad idea?