Richard I would not worry about the high side reading at this time since your system is new. If you pulled a vacuum on the system all night I would have shut it down and wait for 3-4 hours to check that you haven't any leaks. If the reading is the same and while the system is under vacuum put the small can of oil on your freon can tap and open it (puncher the can) upside down, the vacuum will suck all the oil and freon into the system, then do the same with the first can of freon but not upside down. Start the car with the ac on and blower on high. Have the engine at least 1500 rpm, the freon will slowly be transfered into the system. On your gauge which is on the low side or bigger line in your car you read pressure and just above the pressure reading on the gauge you will see temp of the evaporator. As pressure increases so does the temperature of the evaporator. You want to get the evaporator temperature in the high 30s to low 40s F at 1500-2000 rpm. Its just the opposite of what most people think about ac systems. The lower the pressure on the evaporator the lower the temp, but when the evaporator temp gets in the low 30s it will freeze over causing no air to flow through it which people think its not cooling enough, but actually its cooling to much. Freezers in our homes operate with the low side pressure at 1 psi, our ac systems in our homes operate with the low side about 68 psi with R22. These pressures are round abouts not exact as outside temp has a big influence on the gauge reading. As far as your dash temperature reading you must remember the slower the air passes through the evaporator the more time it has to extract the heat from the air. So that being said the lower speed will produce a lower temperature but its the high CFM with lower temp that cools us. On high my car vents read 44-50 F on high speed on a 95+F day here in Arkansas, as the car is moving down the road with the air recirculate switch pressed. Your temp could be slightly different as your in a drier climate.
I am not a heat air guy, I am an electronic tech but learned this while on the ocean having to service 3 central AC systems. So if my explanation is incorrect I will take the tongue lashing with open ears.
For our systems, seems like the majority of people are having great success with 2.5 cans of R134. If you read the gauge while charging this is the most accurate.
No, I sure would have like to but I brought my Renault R5 turbo2 to leave here in CA. I might be heading your direction, as I have family in Olympia WA. I would be happy to help if I can.
Jack