Cars, wives, and therapy...

I came across this post on the Lotus Europa forum, and the reply “Your car isn’t something you drive, it’s something you do” struck me as quite an insight. You need an account to view the whole thread so I copied the reply here.

rdrcjr wrote:
>I need therapy…
> Ok, so the majority of the work on the Lotus is finished. Wife comes
> out to the garage the other night and I am standing there, cleaning
> tools, going through the parts bins and just generally
> straightening. The Lotus is covered. She smiles and says "Ok so
> what's next?". I knew exactly what she was referring to. The same
> thing happened with our Triumph. It was finished after about an 18
> month restore and we bought the Lotus. 14 months later, here we
> stand again. Now do't get me wrong, I love the Lotus and the
> handling, drivability, POWER and all that. And I always will have
> the British warm-spot in my heart. So, is it time? The fall /
> winter is almost here and ..... one of the ladies in the office just
> bought a 79 Corvette. Arg!!! I went out to see it and it was in
> desperate need of a complete teardown and rebuild. I couldn't help
> my hands from instintively reaching for the nearest rachet and
> socket! I was litterally shaking from the anticipation of taking it
> apart, cleaning or replacing everything and putting it back together!
> I would have the interior gutted in about 2 hours. She was asking
> all the right questions.."How can I get rid of this smell?", "Can
> this rust be removed?"... ARGGGGGGGGGG... Her husband is not really
> a restorer and, so I now have the itch. The years of a Corvette to
> buy are.. 1971 - last year for dual chrome bumpers, 1972 - only year
> with chrome back and rubber front bumper, and 1979 - last year of
> the "shark" look. Nevermind that I am also a last-year built kind of
> guy. 1980 Spitfire, and 1974 TCS.
>
> Is it too early to drink? And the wife doesn't help because she says
> she will support "what ever dicision I want to make". <o_O>
> Someone pass me the eBay listings!
>
> Rick
> 74_4576R TCS
>
>

Rick,

I'd have to say that you don't need therapy. Restoring the cars IS your
therapy. With you, a car is not something you drive or look at, it is
something you do. My garden is the same thing for me. It is not
something to look at and enjoy, a garden is something you do.

I wish my Lotus was something I could look at and drive, but
unfortuneately it is something I need to do. And I lack the money or
skill to do it, so for me it is a fustration.

Go get the vet and make your self happy for a while and do your
thing...life is short.

Gary

Yahoo! Groups
 
That is great, and touches a strong chord with many of us. How many stories of wives, cars, and therapies are out there? The "I'll support whatever decision you make" quote sounded familiar. Do they really mean it? or do they feel it is their duty to say it? Or do they wish they'd married the wealthy, ugly dude who was after them?

Dalton.
 
My wife means it. She is very supportive almost to the other extreme. She wants an older Porsche 911, wants to learn how to do the work, but wants me to lead the way to a complete restoration. Nothing against Porsche, but not my cup of tea. Also, she gets so excited that I just can't bring myself to tell her that the garage is my man-cave where I need my alone time. It is bad enough that she insists on parking her BMW M3 on one side.

About 5 years ago, she helped me restore a 1970 Mustang convertible that we were taking to London (later sold in London). She was using paint stripper on the headlight buckets and I casually mentioned at dinner with her parents (not really thinking clearly) that she was helping me and is a great stripper! Her dad still gives me the evil eye.
 

Dimi Terleckyj

Lifetime Supporter
My partner is also is very supportive of my build but she is also worried that as mine is getting close to the end we will only have the car for about three weeks before it is for sale.

She figures the first week I will lose my license, the second week she will lose her's and the third week it is up for sale.

Hope not.

Dimi
 

JohnC

Missing a few cylinders
Lifetime Supporter
A supportive wife will let you use her kitchen oven to preheat those pesky interference fit pinions.....

A REALLY supportive wife might even "loan" you her turkey baster, knowing full well she'll never see it again (nor would she want to).
 
John,

I too have a very supportive wife.

Today I pick up our '57 Ford Ranchero. She said if you want it, get it. I know its not a GT40, but at least its a FORD. I do think it will take a few more discussions to get a GT40. I hope to swing the deal on the Ranchero to include the Carroll Shelby throphies too. Will have to wait and see. I will post some pics of the Ranchero soon.

:pepper:My car collecting will start to sway towards Red, stay tuned!!!!!:pepper:
 
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