I do sympathize with you on litigation. It rarely makes sense and it rarely results in either party being happy. But it is a product of unreasonableness, usually, on both sides. Lawyers can add fuel to flames, or put them out (if they are smarter), but rarely start the fire.
Jeff,
You are so right, this is something my dear old dad used to point out to all his clients. Quite often much to his consternation they choose to ignore him.