I'm not angry or resentful, what prompted you to arrive at that? If I say something that rubs you the wrong way I'm an ogre? Is everything so wonderful, shiny and good to you. You do have rose colored glasses! Are you saying that there isn't anyone that stays home, pumps out kids and gets a welfare check. Come on, you're not that naive! Please!!!!
I don't know about The United States, but there are plenty of un-wed/single mothers some with multiple children, from multiple fathers getting welfare in Australia.
Some facts, remember by comparision Our total population is around 22 million.
The number of single parents increased from 124,000 in 1966 to 183,000 in 1974.
This prompted the Whitlam Government to change the rules governing eligibility for welfare payments because before Mr Whitlam, only widows and deserted wives were eligible to claim financial support from the Government.
There were about 40,000 such claims each year.
But in 1973 Mr Whitlam extended the right to benefits to all single mothers irrespective of their circumstances.
In 1982 the number claiming single parent payments passed 200,000.
It reached 300,000 in 1994, topped 400,000 in 2001.
The number had risen tenfold in less than 30 years.
So by making sole parenthood more financially viable, Mr Whitlam inevitably made it more socially acceptable, even attractive as a lifestyle choice.
And today, single parenthood has become normal, and a key reason for this is that the welfare state supports, enables and endorses it.
That's not to say that there aren't single mothers who were not there by choice.
But there are many who are single by choice and they're also mothers by choice.
The reality is that once welfare growth begins, it takes on a momentum of its own and then voters start to believe they have a right to be supported