1. I totally respect & value everyone's opinion, and have gleaned tons of info during my build from guys on the forum.
2. My car is a street car and will never see a race track while it's in my possession. I paid $ for the Safir Bellhousing that came with their sbf clutch kit and that bellhousing is now part of the car.
3. I'm by no means an expert on some of this stuff, but I cut those ears off when I built the car based on what some others had offered up on one of these forums. An easy fix and, if there are other bellhousings out there that don't have those ears, then maybe they're not necessary.
4. Lots of other cars (production, race, drag, muscle, etc.) have two engine mounts, numerous bolts attaching the bellhousing to the block, more bolts attaching the trans to the bellhousing and then some type of 'trans' mount to a rear x-mbr. That configuration has been around for ages and seems to work OK. I just didn't feel the need for another set of attachments at that point.
5. Bottom line is, it's your car. Weigh all the different responses your going to get and go with the one you are comfortable with.
6. And lastly, at 80 years old, I'm having a blast driving my car and frankly, have other things to worry about.