A very powerful piece of writing by Bryan Forbes

David Morton

Lifetime Supporter
Is there such thing as an average man?
Sometimes there is. Read on....
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The average British soldier is 19 years old.....he is a short haired, well built lad who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears and just old enough to buy a round of drinks but old enough to die for his country - and for you. He's not particularly keen on hard work but he'd rather be grafting in Afghanistan than unemployed in the UK .

He recently left comprehensive school where he was probably an average student, played some form of sport, drove a ten year old rust bucket, and knew a girl that either broke up with him when he left, or swore to be waiting when he returns home. He moves easily to rock and roll or hip-hop or to the rattle of a 7.62mm machine gun.

He is about a stone lighter than when he left home because he is working or fighting from dawn to dusk and well beyond. He has trouble spelling, so letter writing is a pain for him, but he can strip a rifle in 25 seconds and reassemble it in the dark. He can recite every detail of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either effectively if he has to. He digs trenches and latrines without the aid of machines and can apply
first aid like a professional paramedic. He can march until he is told to stop, or stay dead still until he is told to move.

He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation but he is not without a rebellious spirit or a sense of personal dignity. He is confidently self-sufficient. He has two sets of uniform with him: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his water bottle full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never forgets to clean his rifle. He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes and fix his own hurts. If you are thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food is your food. He'll even share his life-saving
ammunition with you in the heat of a firefight if you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and regards his weapon as an extension of his own hands. He can save your life or he can take it, because that is his job - it's what a soldier does. He often works twice as long and hard as a civilian, draw half the pay and have nowhere to spend it, and can still find black ironic humour in it all. There's an old saying in the British Army: 'If you can't take a joke, you shouldn't have joined!'

He has seen more suffering and death than he should have in his short lifetime. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and he is unashamed to show it or admit it. He feels every bugle note of the 'Last Post' or 'Sunset' vibrate through his body while standing rigidly to attention. He's not afraid to 'Bollock'anyone who shows disrespect when the Regimental Colours are on display or the National Anthem is played; yet in an odd twist, he would defend anyone's right to be an individual. Just as with generations of young people before him, he is paying the price for our freedom. Clean shaven and baby faced he may be, but be prepared to defend yourself if you treat him like a kid.

He is the latest in a long thin line of British Fighting Men that have kept this country free for hundreds of years. He asks for nothing from us except our respect, friendship and understanding. We may not like what he does, but sometimes he doesn't like it either - he just has it to do.. Remember him always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood.

And now we even have brave young women putting themselves in harm's way, doing their part in this tradition of going to war when our nation's politicians call on us to do so.

When you receive this, please stop for a moment and if you are so inclined, feel free to say a prayer for our troops in the trouble spots of the world. Maybe you'll want to send it on to someone else too.

Having read it, would you like to leave a message of support at Red Fridays

Thank you for reading to the end

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Charlie Farley

Supporter
I read a few of the pages on RedFriday,

This one made me chuckle :

A Message from: Sqn Ldr(Rtd) Mike Wilkinson
Message To: All our Armed Forces
Your Message: This is a true story, I am sharing it as my own small tribute to our magnificent Armed Forces.
And don't forget to check out Help for Heroes


In 1995 I was on exercise in Germany, attached to an RAF Regiment squadron as their interpreter. During some down-time, I was listening to the local radio station on my little AM/FM pocket set.
There was an interview with the retiring Deputy NATO commander, a German general, which, in part, went like this:

Interviewer: Who do you think are the best troops in NATO?

General: The British.

Interviewer: Not us or the Americans?

General: The British, definitely.

Interviewer: Really, and what makes them the best?

General: I'm not absolutely certain, but I think it's tea.

Interviewer: TEA! Why?

General: Well, we Germans are the best at planning and the Americans have by far the best equipment, but, when we went on exercise last year, we got stuck because our planning went wrong.
The Americans got stuck because their equipment broke down, but the British had achieved their objective and were drinking tea!


Well we don't do much of the planning because it's a coalition and we are only gradually squeezing the equipment out of the treasury, but we have plenty of guts, skill and tea!
Come home safe all of you out there. Words can't express our pride in your quiet, unassuming heroism.-Mike Wilkinson
 

Pete McCluskey.

Lifetime Supporter
Is there such thing as an average man?
Sometimes there is. Read on....
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The average British soldier is 19 years old.....he is a short haired, well built lad who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears and just old enough to buy a round of drinks but old enough to die for his country - and for you. He's not particularly keen on hard work but he'd rather be grafting in Afghanistan than unemployed in the UK .

He recently left comprehensive school where he was probably an average student, played some form of sport, drove a ten year old rust bucket, and knew a girl that either broke up with him when he left, or swore to be waiting when he returns home. He moves easily to rock and roll or hip-hop or to the rattle of a 7.62mm machine gun.

He is about a stone lighter than when he left home because he is working or fighting from dawn to dusk and well beyond. He has trouble spelling, so letter writing is a pain for him, but he can strip a rifle in 25 seconds and reassemble it in the dark. He can recite every detail of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either effectively if he has to. He digs trenches and latrines without the aid of machines and can apply
first aid like a professional paramedic. He can march until he is told to stop, or stay dead still until he is told to move.

He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation but he is not without a rebellious spirit or a sense of personal dignity. He is confidently self-sufficient. He has two sets of uniform with him: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his water bottle full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never forgets to clean his rifle. He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes and fix his own hurts. If you are thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food is your food. He'll even share his life-saving
ammunition with you in the heat of a firefight if you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and regards his weapon as an extension of his own hands. He can save your life or he can take it, because that is his job - it's what a soldier does. He often works twice as long and hard as a civilian, draw half the pay and have nowhere to spend it, and can still find black ironic humour in it all. There's an old saying in the British Army: 'If you can't take a joke, you shouldn't have joined!'

He has seen more suffering and death than he should have in his short lifetime. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and he is unashamed to show it or admit it. He feels every bugle note of the 'Last Post' or 'Sunset' vibrate through his body while standing rigidly to attention. He's not afraid to 'Bollock'anyone who shows disrespect when the Regimental Colours are on display or the National Anthem is played; yet in an odd twist, he would defend anyone's right to be an individual. Just as with generations of young people before him, he is paying the price for our freedom. Clean shaven and baby faced he may be, but be prepared to defend yourself if you treat him like a kid.

He is the latest in a long thin line of British Fighting Men that have kept this country free for hundreds of years. He asks for nothing from us except our respect, friendship and understanding. We may not like what he does, but sometimes he doesn't like it either - he just has it to do.. Remember him always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood.

And now we even have brave young women putting themselves in harm's way, doing their part in this tradition of going to war when our nation's politicians call on us to do so.

When you receive this, please stop for a moment and if you are so inclined, feel free to say a prayer for our troops in the trouble spots of the world. Maybe you'll want to send it on to someone else too.

Having read it, would you like to leave a message of support at Red Fridays

Thank you for reading to the end

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Well I think I'm pretty hardened and cynical, but that made me shed a tear. Thanks for posting and thanks to all the warriors. (On our side).
 

David Morton

Lifetime Supporter
2301.
iCasualties | Operation Enduring Freedom | Afghanistan

Two thousand three hundred and one.

If you haven't sent your first letter of 2011 to your respective political leaders, then you disappoint me. Is it because you need a pen? -write to me and I'll send one to you. Is it the cost of the stamp that is stopping you? Again email me and I'll send the cost of a stamp with the pen. What ever you do please please write and tell them how you feel about Afghanistan. Even about Sharia law, even about the Koran and how the preacher bigots use it.
 

David Morton

Lifetime Supporter
Benjamin Robert-Smith. VC.
What a inspiration.

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Corporal Ben Roberts-Smith in 2011
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Australia</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Service/branch</TH><TD>Australian Army</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Years of service</TH><TD>1996–</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Rank</TH><TD>Corporal</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Unit</TH><TD>Australian Special Air Service Regiment (2003–)
3rd Battalion, Royal Australian Regiment (1997–2003)
</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Battles/wars</TH><TD>International Force for East Timor
War in Afghanistan
Iraq War
</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Awards</TH><TD>Victoria Cross for Australia
Medal for Gallantry
</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-RIGHT: 1em" scope=row>Relations</TH><TD>Len Roberts-Smith (father)</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
 

Keith

Moderator
My thoughts exactly Pete. That would never happen in the UK. Magnificent job but he is now 'burned'.

Of course, the Oz SAS may well be operated differently, such as the US Rangers, but the UK versions are regularly deployed in the civilian arena and rarely wear uniform.

The British SAS are as close as you can get to 'legalised terrorists' and none ever appear in uniform or are recognised as such in public. If members ever do attend military parades, it will be in the uniform of their original regiments which tend to be mainly (but not limited to) The Parachute Regiment.
 
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Pete McCluskey.

Lifetime Supporter
My thoughts exactly Pete. That would never happen in the UK. Magnificent job but he is now 'burned'.

Of course, the Oz SAS may well be operated differently, such as the US Rangers, but the UK versions are regularly deployed in the civilian arena and rarely wear uniform.

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Exactly the same here Keith, which is why I made the comment. Whenever they appear on T.V. normally sadly as pall bearers, their faces are blurred out. Other times the aviator glasses and face scarves come into play. I was also surprised at the publicity given his wife and kids. Normally a big no. no.
 

David Morton

Lifetime Supporter
Pete,
He's done his bit now and wears the VC. He can never return to anonymity
and rightly so. He is a regualr hero. He looks like the sort of guy you could
almost imagine the taliban just freaking out and running for the hills.
What an envoy he will be for your country. No doubt he will be at Buck House
sometime this year along with loads of TV exposure as well so returning to ops was never an option.
 

Charlie Farley

Supporter
The first casualty of war is truth

..I think mark twain said that..not sure

In peace, a son buries his father

In war, a father buries his son
 

Pete McCluskey.

Lifetime Supporter
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<!-- // .story-intro --><!-- google_ad_section_start(name=story_body, weight=high) -->The soldier was named as 22-year-old Corporal Richard Edward Atkinson, who was on his first deployment to Afghanistan. He was engaged to be married.
A second soldier was seriously wounded, acting chief of the Defence Force, Lieutenant General David Hurley said.
Both men were members of the Darwin-based First Combat Engineer Regiment.
They were conducting a dismounted partnered security control with the Afghan national army at the time of the incident, which involved an IED.
General Hurley said the man's family had been notified of the death overnight.
The wounded soldier was in a satisfactory condition at the Tarin Kowt hospital.
 

Keith

Moderator
Just had a beverage or two with my mates from 3 Para. They are resting and will be returning.

They love what they do and cannot wait to get back because finally they are doing what they trained for and they do believe they are helping the average Afghan citizen.

To be quite fair, it is really not a good idea to show any doubt as to their mission. They are doing as required and they do a damned fine job.

It may be fairly obvious to all smart asses who have studied history (myself included) that this is a war that cannot be won in the general victory/defeat scenario but they are not stupid, they know that, and they also need support not only when they are active, but when they are paid off.

Their biggest challenge will be when they are no longer required or are deemed "too old". I witnessed this at the end of the Vietnam war when the public largely turned against the fighting men that were just doing their duty. Much pain and trauma for veterans and their families are still being felt today because, politically, it suddenly wasn't "correct" any more.

I urge everyone who has nationals serving in foreign wars not to spit on your troops (it has happened) but to support them every which way you can and save your vitriol for the politicians that you voted for and, in a moment of quiet reflection just consider that they may just have thought it was a Good Idea at the time.

Peace brothers, and no, I do not understand the Afghan thing either.... :)
 

David Morton

Lifetime Supporter
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17 July 1959 (1959-07-17) (age 51)
Rajshahi, Bangladesh

</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" scope=row>Residence</TH><TD class=label>Wapping, East London</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" scope=row>Nationality</TH><TD class=category>British</TD></TR><TR><TH style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" scope=row>Known for</TH><TD>First Muslim woman in the House of Lords.
United Kingdom Parliamentary expenses scandal.
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I thought I would highlight this tart. She has missapropriated £125,349 OF YOURS AND MY MONEY. Its time to start writing again. This time to the Met Police and start making complaints about her. Sooner or later we will get a review and hopefully charges against her. This campaighn seems to be working as Woolas got sacked , other MPs have gone on holiday at Her Majesty's holiday camps. We will never get all of them but they know who they are and increasinglly THEY KNOW WHO WE ARE. PLEASE PUT PEN TO PAPER. The MPs expenses saga started with just one complaint.
 

Pete McCluskey.

Lifetime Supporter
R.I.P Sapper Jamie Larcombe killed yesterday in a firefight with the Taliban.

Her hair was up in a pony tail,
Her favourite dress tied with a bow.
Today was Daddy's Day at school,
And she couldn't wait to go.

But her mummy tried to tell her,
That she probably should stay home.
Why the kids might not understand,
If she went to school alone.

But she was not afraid;
She knew just what to say.
What to tell her classmates
Of why he wasn't there today.

But still her mother worried,
For her to face this day alone.
And that was why once again,
She tried to keep her daughter home.

But the little girl went to school
Eager to tell them all.
About a dad she never sees
A dad who never calls.

There were daddies along the wall in back,
For everyone to meet..
Children squirming impatiently,
Anxious in their seats

One by one the teacher called
A student from the class.
To introduce their daddy,
As seconds slowly passed.

At last the teacher called her name,
Every child turned to stare.
Each of them was searching,
A man who wasn't there.

'Where's her daddy at?'
She heard a boy call out.
'She probably doesn't have one,'
Another student dared to shout.

And from somewhere near the back,
She heard a daddy say,
'Looks like another deadbeat dad,
Too busy to waste his day.'

The words did not offend her,
As she smiled up at her mum.
And looked back at her teacher,
Who told her to go on.


And with hands behind her back,
Slowly she began to speak.
And out from the mouth of a child,
Came words incredibly unique.

'My daddy couldn't be here,
Because he lives so far away.
But I know he wishes he could be,
Since this is such a special day.

And though you cannot meet him,
I wanted you to know.
All about my daddy,
And how much he loves me so.

He loved to tell me stories
He taught me to ride my bike.
He surprised me with pink roses,
And taught me to fly a kite.

We used to share fudge sundaes,
And ice cream in a cone.
And though you cannot see him.
I'm not standing here alone.

'Cause my daddy's always with me,
Even though we are apart
I know because he told me,
He'll forever be in my heart'

With that, her little hand reached up,
And lay across her chest.
Feeling her own heartbeat,
Beneath her favourite dress.

And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads,
Her mother stood in tears.
Proudly watching her daughter,
Who was wise beyond her years.

For she stood up for the love
Of a man not in her life.
Doing what was best for her,
Doing what was right.

And when she dropped her hand back down,
Staring straight into the crowd.
She finished with a voice so soft,
But its message clear and loud.

'I love my daddy very much,
he's my shining star.
And if he could, he'd be here,
But heaven's just too far.

You see he is an Aussie soldier
And died just this past year
When a roadside bomb hit his convoy
And taught Australians to fear.


But sometimes when I close my eyes,
it's like he never went away.'
And then she closed her eyes,
And saw him there that day.

And to her mother's amazement,
She witnessed with surprise.
A room full of daddies and children,
All starting to close their eyes.

Who knows what they saw before them,
Who knows what they felt inside.
Perhaps for merely a second,
They saw him at her side.

'I know you're with me, Daddy,'
To the silence she called out.
And what happened next made believers
Of those once filled with doubt.

Not one in that room could explain it,
For each of their eyes had been closed.
But there on the desk beside her,
Was a fragrant long-stemmed rose.


And a child was blessed, if only for a moment,
By the love of her shining star.
And given the gift of believing,
That heaven is never too far.
 
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