The winds of change, they are a'blowin', Larry!
I don't think it will be very long before traditional marriage is a thing of the past. In my area of the world most of the young adult generation is just cohabitating, which means they are not married, and an awful lot of babies are born out-of-wedlock. It wasn't so long ago that if a lady found herself "in a family way" out-of-wedlock she was shipped off to visit a long-lost relative (yeah....right!) until the child could be born and adopted out, at which time the lady could return home (without said child) without having to worry about sullying the reputation of her family. Obviously, these days things are WAAAAY different!
Back in the mid-1980's I worked at a high school in a very low socio-economic area of South Houston. Unwed mothers were so prevalent at that school that the school operated a nursery so the girls could continue their education. Cheerleader practice was particularly impressive...each of the cheerleaders brought their babies and they all ooh'ed and aah'ed over each other's children as they practiced.
As for being delusional...those determinations are made based on current diagnostic criterion....and given the manner in which our society has changed during my lifetime I doubt that anyone would think a lady who did not believe that traditional marriage is the NATURAL order of things would be considered delusional. I have a personal example...my daughter has been crazy for babies since she was about 2. She has worked for many families, first as a babysitter and then as a full time nanny. She is childless at this time (she's 31), but if she doesn't get the chance to be a mother in her lifetime it will, IMHO, be one of the greatest tragedies I can imagine. She will be a wonderful mother...she just isn't a good judge of character, I guess, b/c in the past she has always been attracted to losers. Fortunately she hasn't graced me with a grandchild fathered by Mr. Loser #1 to #10. I keep telling her she doesn't have to have a boyfriend to have a baby, and encouraging her to take advantage of the offerings at a sperm bank. IMHO that would be preferable to having a child with Mr. Loser #11, #12, or any other Mr. Loser.
When we're all old and gone, the world will be a very different place. Just think about how divorce has changed in our lifetimes. In my childhood, one of the members of the marriage had to have committed some inexcusable transgression...abandonment, infidelity, that sort of thing...now the courts are granting divorces for just "mutual incompatibility".
Change is inevitable, Larry.....change is good!!
Having said that, I find the manner in which our society is changing to be a bit undesirable, myself...with the possible exception of the obsession all of us car nuts have regarding hemis...wishing you the best of "unions" with the one you're going to meet in SoCal next week, and many years of bonded happiness to your both! Please name the first baby hemi after me (of course, it will be male!!).
Cheers from "YerDugliness"!! (I just added that last part so you'd know how to spell the baby hemi's name)
Doug