So was I. By all accounts my dad returned a changed man. He was an alcoholic for all the years I knew him, but the alcohol had such a hold on him that he was not around much.
My cousin asked how I felt about my dad and my answer was "I loved him for the things he did for us and hated him for the things he could have done, but didn't."
Years later a good friend, who was a paratrooper in Viet Nam, looked at me in disbelief and said "Jesus, Doug, your dad went through The Shit. You should really think about that."
Now I say "I loved him for what he did for us and have forgiven him for what he could have done, but didn't."
We lost more than those who died in that war...
I am now saving $$ so I can go to Loiusville and put flowers on his grave on what will be his 100th birthday.
Doug